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During breastfeeding,

it is also good to have an

erotic restraint. It was said that the child's mouth was made

to apply his mouth to the nipple of the woman's breast.

Elegen the saint, there is a hydraulic application. We remember the word

hydraulic application. His mouth is made in such a way that it does not allow

a trace of air to enter while the child is breastfeeding so that germs do not enter. Not

only material germs but also spiritual germs. Then the mother says alone

with the child and closes the door. Nobody can see you. You wear the clear

syrup. You pray. You cross the child and yourself,

you and the baby. Great moment emotion

awe. The milk passes from one body to the other body of the child. No contact with

germs, no bottle caps, no hassle. The natural way.

In this contact, the child's physical and mental needs are met

. These moments, listen to him, define

adolescence. The moments of the secret education of children. Now

all the needs of the infant are being treated. You change him, bathe him,

nurse him, put him in his crib and hear something you won't like.

No hugs, no kisses,

no petting the very very young children. Why does the child say that when they are

three, four years old they are the receiver of all our desires and those desires

that we do not manifest, but are dispersed in a mysterious way in

children. If we lack and our husband does not hug us

, does not protect us much, does not caress us much, well, there is no need to

blame it on our child. and see it as a substitute. Because

that's how it happens many times. The failed relationship of the couple

is collected by the child and the mother becomes overprotective.

The father becomes egocentric and closed to himself. And then what

happens when we start the many hugs, the many kisses, the many caresses

and in the meantime today every psychiatrist is also a saint. It is also a

recipe. What about creating squishy, sloppy, spoiled, insecure

children. You don't even let someone else hug them. He transmits his own to him and

usually the negatives stick. You will tell me now the child doesn't want a caress, the child doesn't want

a kiss, the child doesn't want a hug. This is where

the adults want it. Well, listen to the saint,

he says these things, but secretly, secretly you long for it, caress it

and mentally keep it in the little head. Mentally. That is, it is a relationship, the mental relationship

that we have not taught people. I mean, I have a problem with

Father Kyprinos.

I bring it to my memory where I am in Evrychou and let him be the

dawn. And I literally hug him

and I literally hug him and I say to him my father I forgive you for what

you said to me. Forgive me and you forgive me. Christ in our midst and I bring to

mind the face of my Christ and place it between us so that he may unite us.

This was the way of Saint Porphyry. This was the way of Elder

James. This was the way of Saint Paisios. They lived a mental

energy where God permeated all relationships.

Praise is harmful to children. Whoever praises us misleads us and

spoils the paths of our lives. How wise are the words of God. Praise

does not prepare children for any difficulties in children and they come out

maladjusted and lose them and ultimately from what they lose. The little child is

always praised. Don't argue, don't oppose him, don't push

the child. But he is learning and so he cannot react correctly even to the smallest

difficulty. As soon as someone opposes him, he is crushed. He has no strength.

Parents are the first to blame for children's failure in life and

teachers and professors then praise them all the time. They say selfish

words. They do not bring them into the spirit of God. They alienate them from the church.

Children with constant pains are not built up. They become selfish and

arrogant. They will want all their lives to be constantly praised by everyone, even

if they are also lied to. Children, when you constantly praise them indiscriminately

, they are tempted by the opposite, temptation. They are fueled by

selfishness and used to small praises from parents and teachers.

maybe the letters are progressing. But what is the benefit

in life selfish people and not Christians.

Selfish people can never be Christians. Our religion does not want

children to learn etiquette. On the contrary, he wants children to

learn the truth from a young age. In other words, the saint puts the truth in the place of the lawsuit.

Know the truth and let the truth set us free.

The truth of Christ emphasizes that if you praise a person, you make him

selfish. The selfish is confused, the one

driven by the devil and the evil spirit. You must tell the

truth. Let the man learn it. Otherwise you support him in his ignorance.

When you tell the other person the truth, he becomes aware, he pays attention, he listens to

others, he restrains himself. Likewise, tell the child the truth.

You will argue with him so that he realizes that what he is doing is not good. We should never

praise our fellow men and flatter them,

but lead them to humility and to the love of God. And neither should

we seek

to be loved by telling others. To learn to love and

not to ask to be loved. To love all brothers in Christ

selflessly without expecting praise and love

from them. This is how school children should be led. This is the

truth. Otherwise they become unadaptable. So when we

create this super-ego in the child with the hardships, we inflate his ego,

we do him great harm, we make him become more decent in devilish

things. This is what the devil managed to do. He made the earth a labyrinth so that

we could not get along with each other. What is it that we suffered and did not

understand. You see how we have gone astray. We have exhausted our land and our era

of proper psychiatrists and we do not understand

what is wrong with us.