Saint Porphyry was very busy helping with his teachings with
his personal advice and so on many parents and many
mothers who, seeing the suffering of their children, ran to tell
their pain, I will tell you a fact, Reverend Fathers when I experienced it
myself I was there and a lady came holding a very small child
5.5 6 years old somewhere around there I don't remember now about how much and she was with the
father they tell the father porphyria he says old man this child day-night
day-night while well every time he also says the word but you realize that I don't say it
in its entirety and the child says what does he have a demon does he have what possessed you
please help us we say to him my child you can't say good morning but
good evening but I want food but the whole word says ear ma we
never said this word between us in the house and the saint answers you didn't say it
no we didn't say it when you were three months pregnant and you didn't ask
your husband for something and he didn't bring it to you what did you call him on such and such a day do
you remember he said to her and she listens she says the child
in the belly listens to her he says
listens listens and disobeys this my child he says to her as God gave me
eyes and I saw how it happened so I tell you my child that you did this because
it begins now a teaching and it says that man is not the only one responsible for
his misdeeds, mistakes, sins, passions are not only personal experiences
of a person, it is not only when someone comes to confess, don't
see him as the specific person who tells you I did that I did that I did
something else, this is not because every person has taken in the experiences
of his parents and especially his mother, that is, where did his mother live when
she was pregnant, she was sad, she was sad, she was tired, her nervous system was
sad, she was melancholy, a situation is created in
people because of their parents first born and they take it with them all their
lives and they leave traces and it is a consequence of this situation and while you go
and say that it pierces my heart because wherever I go he curses and
I don't know what he is saying in fact he has allied himself with the matter and you have
prepared it to be done and you have not learned the method of treatment
but leave the rest and accuse the devil that many times the devil goes and
says guys I didn't know that you didn't know it from the smell he has
acquired from people and says the elder if you don't notice it from the
beginning of pregnancy and says what should we do
it grows it is formed but it is not corrected
it grows it is formed but it is not corrected the education of children the
saint begins from the time of conception the fetus hears and feels in
his mother's embrace he perceives her movements and emotions,
we doctors know this as follows, all people must understand
that man is not the man who speaks and is born and
walks because when a child is born it does not speak it speaks he shouldn't speak, but
he is a complete man, that's why the church has the opinion that one is
a man from
the cape that we have, which we don't believe if one, and some debate
whether the man is from the extremes and etc. it's a Jewish tradition at the moment
there are stages that a man from an animal becomes a man and about
completes his process in the 12th year of age that's why I went to
Christ in the 12th year in the church there is a whole series now how does he
say this do you understand underground underground it affects various things while our church
next and to the ancient Greeks because whoever took for this and Hippocrates
very nicely says among the obligations of the doctor I will never give
medicine to wear out a person who is in the belly is in our oath this is
normal and he also says something else the medical art is very difficult and
anyone who thinks they have experience should remember that many times their experience can
be wrong I say this and
everyone understands the face darkens it says the mother's face darkens and the baby
gets nervous the mother gets nervous and the baby in the belly what does this mean
nuku nkk mother's heart nuku nkk child's heart adrenaline the mother
adrenaline through it from the cord inside the child, that is, it lives and feels
things just like the mother, that is why we consider it syncytial if the mother
does not want the fetus and if she does not love it,
she feels it and then divisions are created throughout the life, I had a
real daughter who, when she got married, didn't want to have children
so that she wouldn't get fat, she says she changed her body and pushed it away and didn't have
children, bad luck anyway, she had the child but the poor woman didn't want the
child when the child she gave birth to over love she gave her husband another
disease your respect that is the woman takes the dagger and steals
her husband's heart you see how I am doing to you taka taka taka inductive and what
solutions are these madam I didn't marry you with your son in the church
madam I love you with your husband and Saint John the Chrysostom says that
when the woman says that you don't love anymore or on the contrary you love
our children more, the man or the woman should say I'm killing them why do I want to do it too
but without you I can't have children chrysostomos says in a
special discourse about love that the love of parents comes first and
the saint below here says the love of procreation and
raising children comes first nothing do nothing neither should the child read
the alphabet if you are with your husband or the wife with the husband and the
husband with the wife in perfect love and a good relationship with each other as unfortunately
we are all sick from our parents' parents and from our parents etc. we know it
all and from the environment in which we are nurtured that's why the
savvopoulos of his parents says in the ugly they will pay and these beautiful
songs he sings don't forget everything matters as Ananias father used to say and
the 10 year old child calls his mother mom did you want me when you
gave birth to me, mother, he kept telling you what he tells me, he has not expressed this anywhere,
only in the spiritual, he had not expressed it, duty then tells her, mother, did you want me
when you gave birth to me, she tells him, but you don't see how much I love you, but how much, my child
, but what are you saying mom you loved me when you touch your belly she says I loved you
baby mom caress your belly send me messages in my belly I know
what to say she came and cried on her knees and called me papa for so
long I didn't want it I said how I'm having a baby and I'm going to gain weight because all her
life her mother had told her that you were [ __ ] fat, you'll be fat
and if you give birth you'll be a fat barrel the girl is thin and
beautiful because of our parents' ugliness you see, when there is joy, peace, love in the
fetus, it transmits it to it in secret, and just as it happens with born
children, when the mother has peace, love, joy, she also transmits it to her children, that's
why she says now the mother must be very careful during the period of
pregnancy and to love the fetus to caress her belly
the same as the child what she was saying to read psalms to chant tropes to live a
holy life this is her western life benefit to make sacrifices for the sake of the fetus to make
the child more holy to obtain from her beginning, holy origins, this is what
Father Paisius said, you saw, he says how delicate
a woman is to offer a child, how much God honored her and deserved her to
be at this moment when she carries within her the living
soul, she has a second life, but what does she have huge
responsibility in this spirit, people should have seen this thing
and the people should have known it, do you remember what they said that if she doesn't smell like a rabbit, go and
bring her a rabbit, that's not it, you're making the conditions of pregnancy
humane, that's not the rabbit, bring her a rabbit,
make her life conditions human, be happy, be quiet, be
peaceful, rest, pamper her,
think of her as a hormone bomb that goes around
like this, up and down, up and down their hormones and after that and 40 days to
calm down and the hormones that were inside and maintained the child in the womb
everything or our church with love and order as long as it has the right purpose because
not to clean the impure not to give the 
